Are you hungry?

In September I’ll be working with Meal Exchange as a Campus Coordinator at Seneca. We’ll be working to help hunger disappear across Canada.

Check the vid.

A failure to communicate.

It’s inevitable. When you’re moving from one place to the next, whether it be from school to job, or from one job to the next (or to no job), people will promise to ‘keep in touch’. In the past, I always agreed with a whole lot of hesitation. It doesn’t matter who–it could be a new friend from college or university, or a manager who could be a good reference, I promise to keep in touch knowing I probably won’t.

This past week it seems I’ve been reaching out to almost everybody. Old friends from school, past workplaces, even interviewers I really got along with. But it seems I haven’t gotten any responses. I realized I had the wrong number for one friend I meant to keep in touch with, but what about everybody else? It makes me wonder: Am I having a ‘failure to communicate’? When we say we’re going to keep in touch with someone, does that promise have an expiration date? After a couple weeks/months/years, does your promise to ‘keep in touch’ no longer apply?

As someone who has struggled with depression for years, I knew myself enough to know that I would never keep in touch no matter how many times I said it. It was the nature of the beast. Most of the time I didn’t want to talk to anyone, so why would I keep in touch? Of course I’ve never been honest about it. After hearing ‘keep in touch’, no one responds: “I would, but I’m depressed and I don’t have the energy for that.” I worry: Now that I’ve realized I do want to keep in touch, have my promises gone bad? Maybe it would be better to be honest and say “I suffer from depression sometimes and I go in to hiding, so I probably won’t keep in touch, but I’ll call you when I feel better!”

Random Thought.

If owners have to pick up after their dogs, police officers should have to pick up after their horses.